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  • ‘My Favourite Waste Of Time’ – Owen Paul

    ‘My Favourite Waste Of Time’ – Owen Paul

    Mandy writes:

    In the summer of 1986 this song by Owen Paul was everywhere.

    It’s a classic boy-meets-girl one-hit wonder which was huge for one summer and then completely disappeared.

    It’s a happy song, with a cheesy video. Owen’s jeep breaks down, he plays the guitar on the beach, windsurfs (badly) and tries desperately to impress a girl.

    It’s sunny, it’s fun – and all in all, quite innocent.

    In 1986, I was 14. Exams weren’t yet a thing and the biggest worry was what to wear to the Monday evening under-18s disco at the local nightclub. (The thought of going out on a Monday now feels like way too much of a commitment, but it was the best thing to do in our town back then).

    The internet barely existed, social media hadn’t been invented and the disco finished at 10pm, with parents outside waiting to take us home. It feels like a different world.

    Of course, there were pressures and dangers and challenges back then, just as there are now.

    But this song does bring that word ‘innocence’ to mind for me.

    In Matthew chapter 10, Jesus sends the twelve disciples out in pairs to villages and towns, to share the good news of the kingdom of God. He tells them to be ‘wise as serpents and innocent as doves’.

    Being ‘wise as a serpent’ does not mean the disciples are being told to be cynical or negative. Rather, I think it’s about taking a worldview which seeks to see things clearly, making good judgements as a result of that clarity.

    And while being ‘innocent as a dove’ could suggest naivety, maybe on a deeper level it is about exhibiting a commitment to ethical living and peacemaking, especially in challenging situations.

    It seems that Jesus is encouraging his disciples to navigate the world with intelligence and integrity. And you don’t even have to learn to windsurf to do that.

    Find out what Owen Paul is up to these days at https://theowenpaul.com/

  • ‘What Is Love?’ – Haddaway

    ‘What Is Love?’ – Haddaway

    Katherine writes:

    What is love?
    Baby, don’t hurt me
    Don’t hurt, me no more
    ‘ 
    (Haddaway – What Is Love)

    I hadn’t really thought too much about what love is until I started to teach Year 12 lessons on it. It’s always interesting to see what the young people say about it. I’ve had things ranging from ‘it’s an emotional attachment between two people’, ‘love is a feeling’ to ‘overrated and complicated’. It’s a really difficult thing to define! Like the song above, that features in a video from the lesson, it can often be associated with pain and hurt. Loving someone leaves you open to be hurt.

    I think love is key to the flourishing of Christian communities and ultimately humanity, but I think it’s also something that we don’t often get right. The fear of getting hurt and struggling to love those who are different often means that we hurt people, instead of trying to love them like Jesus does. I think we often love people how we would like to be loved, but actually, that doesn’t always mean that the person feels loved!

    Love languages are a good place to start and are really helpful practically, but what does the bible say about love? And how can I ‘love the flock’ better (when I say the flock, I mean the congregation of a church). This is something that I have really struggled with over my 2 years working for the church!

    Love is mentioned 551 times in the bible (New International Version). As a comparison, the word sin is mentioned 415 times. It’s something God wants us to not just understand, but show through our actions. The verse below is used a lot in weddings. I use it to summarise the Year 12 lesson I teach on love and give it a Christian perspective. For me, it’s one of the best definitions of love.

    I know that when I’m being short and impatient, I’m not loving people. I know that when I am selfish and cruel, I’m not loving people. I know that when I get angry and lose my temper, I dishonour God and the people around me. When I bring up past wrongdoings in a fight, I am not doing what Jesus did, who perfectly modelled love. When I have feelings of happiness when something goes wrong in the lives of people I dislike and struggle to get on with, I am not being loving. I know all of these things, but I also know that I’m not Jesus and I won’t ever do all of these perfectly. However, this is a framework around which to base how I love people, as are many other parts of the bible.

    Image from https://zindagidesigns.com/

    I also think that one word isn’t enough to describe what love is, and I think the Greek language does a much better job with 8 words that describe different types of love. I think the media focuses way too much on Eros and leaves the other types of love out. Just think about the plot line of many classic Disney films!

    Ancient Greeks had many different words for love. Think about these kinds of love - which do you have and with whom? Are some of these more important to you than others? Why?
    From: http://www.bishuk.com

    Wikipedia describes Agape as “the love of God for man and of man for God”. It’s the highest and purest form of love. It’s why God sent down his only Son. I think heaven will have an abundance of this type of love. I think the world now lacks this kind of love. I love the verse below. It describes the great love of God, but it also gives us direction and instruction. We can bring heaven down to earth by loving one another. I can bring heaven to earth by loving those around me like it describes in Corinthians. I also need to remember that first and foremost, I am unconditionally and fiercely loved by my almighty father. I pray that you know God’s love now and always.

    1 John 4:7-21 (ESV) – God is Love – ‘Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God. Anyone who does not love does not know God, because God is love. In this the love of God was made manifest among us, that God sent his only Son into the world, so that we might live through him. In this is love, not that we have loved God but that he loved us and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins. Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. No one has ever seen God; if we love one another, God abides in us and his love is perfected in us.’

    Find out more about Haddaway at https://haddawaychannel.com/

  • ‘JCB Song’ – Nizlopi

    ‘JCB Song’ – Nizlopi

    Marc writes:

    Nizlopi were/are a massively underrated folk-pop duo. Only in very recent times have they had a little bit of a resurgence due to Ed Sheeran claiming they were an influence for him and inviting them on tour. And their album “Half These Songs Are About You” was brilliant. I loved it. I played the cassette on loop in my little VW Golf for the next year.

    Only one song was properly respected from the album though… and even then, it was treated like a bit of a joke and a quirk due to its re-release being two weeks before Christmas in 2005 (having flopped during a June release), and making it to number one on the 18th December 2005, only to be kicked off the top spot a week later!

    “JCB Song” is about a boy who finds solace in the presence of his dad in his JCB. It’s not a fast-paced life as they hold up the traffic, who are getting “all impatient and angry, but we don’t mind”. Because it’s safe. Safe from “the bullies, and the teachers and their pets”. It’s a relief from the “bloody hard day”.

    Slow and safe. That matters in life. That matters amidst the fears and the busyness. That’s something that is often missing in my life.

    What if, very simply, in its innocence and sincerity in naming the fears and the busyness, this one-hit wonder is calling me to rediscover a slow, safe place with my father?

    Even if God isn’t “B. A. Baraccus, with a JCB and Bruce Lee’s nunchuckas”, and I’m not going to “transform into a Tyrannosaurus Rex” to deal with my problems, maybe slowing down a bit and being safe with my dad, maybe “having a top laugh” or maybe just sitting in silence, is enough to see me through whatever comes next.

    Find out more about Nizlopi at https://www.nizlopi.com/

  • ‘Wandrin’ Star’ – Lee Marvin

    ‘Wandrin’ Star’ – Lee Marvin

    Tom writes:

    I can’t remember the particular date and time when I first heard it, but I remember the experience. I was a kid, it was Christmas, or Easter, or some other Bank Holiday, and we were flicking through the TV channels to find something to watch, when we struck upon what looked like some kind of
    cowboy film (it’s a Western, but at that age, all Westerns were cowboy films), and there was Lee Marvin, and Marvin was singing. Singing! Well, I say singing, but growling is closer to it. The film was, of course, Paint Your Wagon, and the song was “Wand’rin Star”.

    I didn’t know that at the time, and we only caught just a short part of the song, let alone the whole film (I admit that I still, even having done Film Studies as part of my first degree, haven’t watched the full thing), but somehow, even as a child, the song struck a chord with me. We were living in Shropshire at the time. We’d moved a little, but not in a way that meant I didn’t feel like I belonged where we were. I sang, but as a treble chorister. I’ve no idea why it felt like my kind of song, but it has stuck with me.

    Every so often, I find it winds through my mind. Nowadays, I’ve lived at something like 17 addresses in my less than 50 years. Nowadays, I’m a baritone who can comfortably drop down onto the growl register to sing along with Marvin – and who rejoices whenever popular songs are not sung in the tenor range! Nowadays I smile at the fact that this really is a proper One Hit Wonder – it made it all the way to #1 in the UK chart, and Marvin never released another song so there isn’t even some Top 75 or Top 100 release lurking in the background so someone can say, “Ah, well, it’s not really a proper One Hit Wonder”.

    And if the hard-man, anti-hero playing Lee Marvin scoring a #1 hit about a 19th Century gold prospector’s feelings about settling down isn’t remarkable enough, it also beat The Beatles’ “Let It Be” to the top of the British charts, thereby denying them yet another UK chart-topper with their final single before the band broke up!

    Yet that’s not the reason the song lives with me, of course. No. Little did I know it when I first heard it all those years ago that I would grow to be a nomad. It seems I was, indeed, born under a wand’rin star – though unlike Marvin’s character, Ben, and the lyrics of the song, I don’t feel I’m without a place to call home. My online moniker, MendipNomad, speaks of the place I know I am attached to by some strange harness that stretches at each move that I make, but never snaps, even though I only lived there 3 years, and not until I was 16. I’m tied now, too, to the Eastern Edges of the British Isles – having lived in the land of my ancestors on the Essex shore of the Stour Estuary, having a grandson who is part of an Ipswich family through and through, and loving living in the city of stories that is Norwich.

    Yet wandering, and wondering, is very much a part of who I am, and if you ask me for a theme tune then, while it might not make the final choice, Marvin’s growling recognition of wanderlust, and that for some it is the journey that matters rather than the destination, would definitely be in with a shout.

  • ‘Spirit In The Sky’ – Norman Greenbaum

    Vicci writes:

    Those of us who are of a certain age will remember Spirit in the Sky as an iconic song of our teen-aged years when (at least in the rural communities) there were village discos where you could buy pop, crisps and perhaps a chocolate bar if you were really lucky, where alcohol was banned (but occasionally slipped in via cunningly devised routes) and where we would stand around in circles head-banging to this song. My mother, who nursed at the island hospital, would mutter darkly about brain injuries, but was unusually unable to back this assertion up with work-derived illustrations.

    It took an embarrassing number of decades for me to realise that this banger of a tune was a song that thought it was making a statement about Christians. Having grown up with the concept of the Spirit living in me and thus having never thought of God as a “Spirit in the Sky” in the first place, it didn’t occur to me that anyone else might.

    So who is right? Me, who thinks it’s okay to start not just a sentence, but a whole paragraph with “so” or Norman Greenbaum, who wrote a part of the soundtrack to my youth? The ancient Hebrews believed that it took three elements to create a baby. They understood about male and female – after all, they were mostly farmers – but they didn’t understand why sometimes conception happened, and sometimes it didn’t. The Holy Spirit made sense to them as the missing element. If we follow that thought to its conclusion, it would suggest that not only do our bodies contain the DNA of both of our parents, but also that we contain the Holy Spirit. Some of you may think that this doesn’t account for the events of Pentecost, but bear with me.

    When I was a child, the house was predominantly heated by a coal fire. This was in the sitting-room, and had a back boiler where water was heated. If the fire went out overnight, we not only woke up to a very cold house, but no hot water and a long wait for the fire to be re-lit and the fuel to become a warming influence, and not just a crackling light. Of course, we also didn’t want a spark to fly out and set the house on fire and there was a trick to balancing these two needs. It involved letting the fire burn down to glowing embers and carefully covering these with a small mound of ash. This was called “banking in the fire.”

    The following morning, the first person up would have to rake through the ash, so that it fell down below the grate, was then scooped up and thrown away, and the embers were gradually coaxed back into a full flame with the addition of initially small pieces of wood and coal, and then as the fire took hold with larger bits.

    I wonder if the Holy Spirit in each of us is banked in, tamped down with sin, fear, worry, anxiety and so on and when we confess our sins and add in to our lives the things that Wesley called “the means of grace”: Bible reading, prayer, Communion, gathering together with other Christians for fellowship and debate, then we are performing the spiritual equivalent of the early morning routine of raking through the fire and bringing it back to life.

    The song says “Never been a sinner, I never sinned” but then goes on “I got a friend in Jesus”, perhaps suggesting not that the singer has never sinned, but that Jesus has wiped those sins away. For me, thinking of sin as the ash that damps down the fire of the Holy Spirit in me is a helpful way of understanding why it might matter so much to God, and also of interpreting my day. Imagining the means of grace as adding fuel to the fire of the Holy Spirit in me gives me an image that calls me back to Bible and prayer when the daily routines have become difficult to follow.

    In the end, perhaps we are both right, Norman Greenbaum and me. Perhaps the Holy Spirit is in each one of us, a well-fed fire, or a banked in, scarcely there ember, and also outside of us, in the world at large, God’s Spirit in the sky and in the very air we breathe.

    Norman Greenbaum is still alive and kicking – you can find out more at https://spiritinthesky.com/

  • Friday Fix Summer Special: One Hit Wonders… but we need YOU!

    Well, here’s the thing. There is no Friday Fix today.

    Not because the world is short of songs with something to say. Not because the connection between a well-chosen lyric and the deeper things of life has dried up. But simply because nobody sent one in. The inbox sits there, quiet as a country church on a Tuesday afternoon.

    And we’re not judging. Honestly.

    But we are about to launch a whole summer season of One Hit Wonders — those gloriously brief musical gems that appeared in the charts, said their piece, and were never quite heard from again. One magnificent moment. One song that somehow said everything.

    The trouble is, a season needs submissions. And submissions need you.

    So here’s our gentle, entirely non-desperate appeal: dig back through your musical memory. What’s the one-hit wonder that’s stuck with you? The one that came on the radio and made you turn it up? The one that, when you think about it, might just have something to say about faith, or hope, or what it means to be human?

    To get the creative juices flowing, we’re sharing a link to BBC Radio 2’s show on the UK’s best-selling One Hit Wonders — it’s not brand new, but it’s a wonderful trip down memory lane, and who knows what it might shake loose.

    🎵 https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b010mwjbhttps://www.bbc.co.uk/

    Send us your Fix and let’s make this a summer to remember.

    The inbox (fridayfixmail@gmail.com) is waiting. Hopefully not for long.

  • ‘In The Country’ – Cliff Richard & The Shadows

    Gill writes:

    My recent reflections have often been about how lately it feels like I’ve been swimming in some pretty deep, heavy waters against the tide. So today, I thought I would give the despair a well-deserved day off. Instead, I thought I’d focus on the pure joy of savouring the moment. And to help us do that, I  thought I’d take a little step back into 1966 and this classic from Cliff Richard and The Shadows.

    Your recollections of this track are probably of a bright, relentlessly cheerful piece of vintage sixties pop. It’s the kind of tune that is definitely of its time. But if you peel back that upbeat tempo and actually look at what the song is saying, it has the perfect message for our busy modern minds.

    The song starts with that feeling of isolation:

    When the world in which you live in
    Gets a bit too much to bear
    And you need someone to lean on
    When you look, there’s no one there

    Tell me about it, Cliff. And then it goes on to talk about the world closing in on you:

    When you’re walking in the city
    And you’re feeling rather small
    And the people on the sidewalk
    Seem to form a solid wall

    Back then, that solid wall closing in on you was probably more literal – brick, mortar, and bustling crowds. Today, I think our solid wall is usually digital—the endless scrolling, the furious commentary on our screens, and the crushing weight of opinions we didn’t ask for. 

    If we don’t actively and intentionally claim our own peace, the noise of the world will claim it for us. Making the most of a quiet moment seems more of a challenge to make space for. In a world that demands our constant attention, making time for peace and joy is probably what you could call an act of radical defiance. As Julian Cope once sang, it’s a way of saying ‘World, shut your mouth!’

    We have a lovely, long bank holiday weekend stretching out ahead of us – with cracking weather promised apparently. It can be easy to treat these extra days as time to catch up on chores, run errands (usually to the tip), or, dare I say, spend an extra twelve hours staring at our phones.

    This weekend, I wonder if I could challenge you to do something different. I wonder if you could practice a little bit of radical defiance. You don’t need to buy a train ticket to some dramatic coast or countryside to do this though. I think that ‘the country’ is more a state of mind. It’s any neutral ground where you are completely safe from the noise—and surely the absolute best place to find that is in nature.

    There is a profound spiritual peace waiting for us outdoors. When human spaces feel fractured and heavy, stepping into creation reminds us that there is a wider, divine reality at work. Nature has a beautiful way of grounding us because it doesn’t have anxieties like we do. A forest doesn’t care about arguments. A stream doesn’t worry if it has done the ‘right’ thing. The grass grows, the trees reach upwards, and the breeze blows exactly as God designed them to do.

    When we quieten our minds in green spaces, we aren’t just escaping; we are opening our hearts. We are making room to hear that “still, small voice” that so easily gets drowned out by the digital roar of our world. For a moment or two, we can tell ourselves that while we might feel powerless to fix the world, we can rest safely in the hands of the One who holds it all.

    So, pack up a flask of tea, find a patch of green, and go reclaim your piece of the country.

    Have a peaceful, wonderfully defiant Bank Holiday weekend.

    Well – Cliff is still with us 60 years later and you can find out what he’s up to at https://www.cliffrichard.org/

  • Summer of ‘One Hit Wonders

    This summer, the Friday Fix is celebrating one-hit wonders — those songs that blazed into our lives, lodged themselves deep in our hearts, and somehow never left, even if the artists largely did. You know the one. It appears on the radio or playlist, and you’re immediately 15 again, or standing in a kitchen you haven’t stood in for decades, or remembering a summer that felt like it would last forever.

    We want to hear about yours. What’s the song that got away — and what does it say to you about faith, life, or the human longing for something more?

    Send us a short reflection pairing your one-hit wonder with a moment of theological insight, and we’ll share it with the Friday Fix community. All musical tastes welcome — guilty pleasures especially encouraged. Drop us a line at fridayfixmail@gmail.com and let your one hit wonder have its moment yet again.

  • ‘Walkaway’ – Cast

    Gill writes:

    I’ve found myself using a phrase quite often so far this year. That phrase is ‘knock the dust (from your shoes).’ Its origins lie in the Gospel of Luke, Chapter 10. It’s one of those phrases or quotes that I turn to when I find myself caught up in heated debates or doomscrolling through Threads. It helps me step back and check myself. Take a breath and ask what’s going on here?

    You may be familiar with the story in Luke 10 – it’s where Jesus sends out seventy-two disciples — in pairs, which is itself worth noting — and gives them a remarkably practical set of instructions. Find a welcoming house. Stay there. Eat what they give you. And if a town doesn’t receive you? Shake the dust from your feet and move on.

    In other words, don’t get yourself embroiled in a prolonged argument. Don’t keep trying harder and harder to win people over. Just — walk away.

    I find that Cast’s Walkaway, from their 1995 debut album All Change, captures something of that same spirit. It’s not an angry song. It’s not particularly sad or full of pent-up frustration. It’s underpinned with that Britpop confidence — nay, swagger — of the 1990’s but underneath it, I find there’s something wiser than it first appears. If you’ve heard all they got to say / you looked but turned away. The walking away here isn’t defeat. I think it’s discernment.

    And in 2026, discernment might be one of the most countercultural things we can practise.

    We live in a world engineered to keep us engaged — not productively engaged, of course, but hooked. The (doom) scroll. The ‘hot take’. The reply that definitely won’t change anyone’s mind, but somehow we can’t resist typing anyway. Comment sections on social media seem designed less for conversation and more for combat by keyboard warriors. Algorithms that have learned, very efficiently, that outrage keeps us online longer than wonder does.

    Into all of that, the song says: walk away. Just like Jesus told us to do two thousand years earlier.

    I think the thing to notice about the Luke 10 instruction is that it is not about having a sense of resignation. It isn’t Jesus saying don’t bother because people are useless. I think it’s something more purposeful than that — more about assessing a situation, like triaging in a hospital A&E, or a gardener knowing when soil is ready. The disciples aren’t carrying a message that diminishes if it goes unheard in one place. They carry it onwards. You’ll never lose your dreams, as Cast put it, in one of those lines that you could almost throw away until you sit with it.

    There’s a particular kind of exhaustion that comes from trying to reach people who, right now, simply aren’t ready to hear. We’ve probably all felt it — in a family conversation that turns circular, in a social media exchange that generates more heat than light, in a world of soundbites and bots where nuance goes to die. The temptation is to try harder, speak louder, and find the persuasive argument that will finally land.

    But Jesus offers us something different: permission. Permission to move on. To trust that the Spirit works in its own time, through its own means, and that our job is not to force every door but to notice which ones are opening.

    Walking away, in this reading, is not apathy. It’s not giving up on people. It’s an act of faith — that the Good News is bigger than any single conversation, that it will find its moment, and that burning ourselves out helps no one.

    So maybe the questions are: what dusty shoes need a shake? Where are the open doors? The receptive hearts? The places where something might actually take root?

    Walk away from the noise. And walk towards life. And never lose our dreams.


    Find out more about Cast at https://castband.co.uk/