Gill writes:
I have a confession to make (well, it’s always good to start with a confession) – Raye’s music hadn’t really been on my radar. In fact, I think all I knew of Raye was that song about the husband, which TikTok has now worn thin. The fun thing about our Mercury Prize Friday Fixes is that we get to choose the album, so I deliberately opted for hers to see how her music lands with me.
All I can say is ‘wow!’ It opens with a proper explosion of sound: big band, hip-hop, the lot. And then, about halfway through comes the calm (until about three quarters in), yet thought-provoking ‘Life Boat.’
It’s mostly a montage of one line: I’m not giving up yet. And it’s that last word that I really honed in on. It’s not a song about being fine or that things will all work out; instead, it is song about resilience and persistence.
‘We are made to persist. That’s how we find out who we are’ says American author Tobias Wolff. This, for me, is what the ‘yet’ signifies.
The world feels pretty daunting at the moment, and I suspect you might feel it too. I find it oddly reassuring to hear Raye sing about something to cling on to. I sense the divine here. I feel the prayer.
Lord, send me a lifeboat
Something I could cling to
The topic of lifeboats has had another meaning lately. A divisive one sadly, which has prompted me, on a daily basis, to remember what Jesus asked of us: love your neighbour.
As a Jesus follower, a neighbour (to me) is every single person I encounter. People who are loveable and those who are more difficult to love. And part of loving my neighbour means taking a stand for people who are being trampled on, and making that stand without hatred in my heart for those who might not agree with me.
I’ve supported the RNLI ever since I heard about Grace Darling as a child. Just like Grace, today’s lifeboat crews don’t ask who’s in the water before they launch. They just go. That seems like the clearest picture of loving your neighbour I can think of.
Whether you’re going through darkness, there is a future
There’s a way forward
There’s, there’s hope
I came to Raye by accident, via our Mercury Prize ‘challenge’ and a very overused TikTok track, and I’ve ended up with a lifeline I didn’t know I needed.
Like Raye, I don’t know how troubles in our world will work out. But I’m not giving up yet. And maybe I can be the hand that reaches out, just like there have been hands that have reached out for me.
And if you’re in a similar place, perhaps take comfort in that three letter word – don’t be giving up yet. It’s small enough to carry you and strong enough to hold on to.
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