Fidge writes:
Lucy Spraggan first appeared on our screens in X Factor 2012. She pulled out fairly early in the series due to illness, but she still managed to sign a record deal.
This year she brought out her 5th album Today was a Good Day and whilst I would never describe myself as a fan, this album is really rather good.
I was first introduced to one of the songs from the album, Stick the Kettle On (featuring Scouting for Girls), while on retreat. Our retreat leader was talking about seeing Lucy in concert and how moved she was by the song.
Stick the Kettle On was released for World Suicide Prevention Day and is written to support the charity CALM (Campaign against Living <iserably). Whilst it is a song reflecting the high rate of suicide amongst men under the age of 50, it is also a song for anyone who is feeling low – essentially an invitation to speak to your family, friends, anyone – and where better than over a cuppa!
I’m currently doing some research with Germinate on rural isolation and loneliness. I think loneliness is one of the biggest diseases we have in our country, if not the world. And of course, it’s not just old people or rural people who get lonely, but loneliness is still something that we rarely talk about. It seems to still carry a huge stigma. So this song reminds me of the importance of just having some company and someone to talk to – even if it’s just once a week.
Whilst on retreat, one of the things I reflected on was how important hospitality is to me as part of my faith.
I’m reminded of Jesus saying:
I was hungry and you gave me food
I was thirsty and you gave me drink,
I was a stranger and you welcomed me. (Matthew 25:35)
Or the ancient rune of hospitality that is said weekly at Iona Abbey:
We saw a stranger yesterday
We put food in the eating place
Drink in the drinking place
Music in the listening space.
And in the sacred name of the triune God
He blessed us and our house
Our cattle and our dear ones.
As the lark says in her song, often, often, often goes Christ in the Stranger’s guise.
For me, hospitality is not just about welcoming friends or strangers. Its more about how we make and create community. It’s about knowing who our neighbours are. It’s about picking the phone up for a chat – for no specific reason at all.
We live in a world where there more barriers of exclusion, the higher the wall, the safer people feel. And yet as Christians we want to break down barriers and invite people in. So, who might you want to have a cuppa with this week? Who might be the lonely people amongst you and how might you connect with them?
Just an offer of a cup of tea and chat might be a literal life saver for one and you never know, you may even find that you have ‘entertained angels unawares’. Hebrews 13:2.
Lucy Spraggan will be performing at Greenbelt this year.
CALM: https://www.thecalmzone.net
Germinate Rural Loneliness and Isolation Toolkit:
https://germinate.net/mission/rural-isolation-and-lonliness-toolkit/
