• ‘What Is Love?’ – Howard Jones

    Gill writes:

    Maybe it’s because we’ve had Valentine’s Day this week; or perhaps it’s because the Church of England went public about gender-neutral pronouns for God; or perhaps it’s because I have heard this song playing away in the background in shops and on the radio – whatever it is, this song has been at the forefront of my mind in the last few days.

    The music of Howard Jones arrived at a sweet spot in my teenage years and gave a voice to my inner thoughts. His songs encouraged me to see both sides and throw off your mental chains; to get to know people well and to reach the real you inside; not to always look at the rain and to ponder what is love.

    When I was training to be a Reader, we were tasked with coming up with a sentence or two that might describe God to someone who hadn’t heard of God before. As you can imagine, there were all sorts of descriptions but most of them contained something appertaining to God being love. Apart from one person – whose experience of parental love left them feeling cold when God is described as love.

    I’ve written before about the different types of love, and it occurs to me that those of us who think of God as love might be influenced by the type known as agape – unconditional, sacrificial love.

    I love you whether or not you love me
    I love you even if you think that I don’t
    Sometimes I find you doubt my love for you
    But I don’t mind
    Why should I mind?
    Why should I mind?

    Love challenges us and questions our assumptions. Love leads us to want to change. Love turns our world, and what we know of it, upside down at times. Love enables us to doubt. Doubt is something that some Christians fear so they might deny they have doubts, or they might just shy away from discussing them. But doubt is the thing that leads us to think, question and understand more deeply. As Pete Rollins puts it “To believe is human, to doubt divine.”

    Can anybody love anyone so much that they will never fear?
    Never worry, never be sad?
    The answer is they cannot love this much, nobody can
    This is why I don’t mind you doubting

    The verse that resonated so much for me as a teenager is the third one. And it still does today. For many of us, our teenage years are the time when we’re most aware of having expectations placed upon us, or expectations that we worry we can’t live up to, of people telling us who they think we are and what we’re capable of. It’s the time when we kick back and assert our need for space to develop in the way God created us. Having space and nourishing environments for us to know and grow about ourselves and others is vital to our being human.

    And maybe love is letting people be just what they want to be
    The door always must be left unlocked
    To love when circumstance may lead someone away from you
    And not to spend the time just doubting

    The key to knowing God’s love is to love yourself (you are fearfully and wonderfully made), then you can love others and the world which God not only created for all life, but entrusted us with. Letting love shape and direct our lives offers worship and love for God – and this is what Jesus taught and showed us to do.

    So yes Howard, anybody can love anybody anyway, if they’re following the path that Jesus put them on.

    Howard Jones is still making music – and you can find out more about what he’s up to here – http://www.howardjones.com/index.html

  • ‘AstroTurf’ – King Gizzard & The Lizard Wizard

    This week’s Fix first appeared a few days ago on the Theology Everywhere blog. We thought it was well worth a share on The Friday Fix too – enjoy!

    Kerry writes:

    Let me invite you to peer, quickly, into the Gizzverse. This is the realm, theoretical and experiential, inhabited by invested fans of the Australian band King Gizzard and the Lizard Wizard. In 2022 they celebrated 10 years together and released 5 records in one year, for the second time! Their last offering of 2022 was the album Change, featuring 7 tracks which were initially birthed 5 years before. The band realised they did not have the musical capacity to complete the album then, but 5 years of growth finally enabled them to do it. The whole album is an experiment in music, each song structured around two chords and scales, D and F#. I am not sure if by now you are bemused, disengaged, or intrigued, but please hang in there.

    AstroTurf is the third track on Change and is about, well, AstroTurf! It is an environmental lament. The band have taken increasingly seriously the environmental crisis we find ourselves in. Individual tracks on albums, multiple tracks on their 2019 album, Infest the Rats Nest, explore environmental change and crisis, and it does not end there. They regularly press records on recycled material; have dispensed with shrink-wrap covers for their albums, in favour of cardboard envelopes and, in one case, reclaimed denim. They were awarded a £20,000 prize (which they donated to the environmental charity The Wilderness Society) for the song and video of If Not Now, Then When?, (from the album L.W.). A persistent refrain in that song wonders what it will take to change our behaviour. The song AstroTurf is another of their environmental protests. It portrays the mentality where control and the pursuit of an artificial (im)perfection overwhelms natural beauty, and to counter this it offers the lament of butterflies.

    AstroTurf, the product, appears to solve the intrusions of the natural world for the human speaking in the song:

    Everything’s dead here
    Covered with plastic
    Everything’s fluoro
    Evergreen matter. . .

    When it don’t matter
    Everything’s better
    Throw-away plates are
    Better for business
    Everything’s easy
    Better for the earth is AstroTurf. . .

    Suitable texture, suitable colour
    Miniature forest, better than nature
    Make me feel better knowing I won’t go
    Out on my lawn and see an animal
    Everything’s sterile, even infertile
    Proud of my monster, never been straighter. . .

    But at the same time creation is given a voice, a lamenting voice in the butterflies:

    Six butterflies fluttered by
    Looked horrified
    “I just hatched from chrysalis
    I’ve only hours, . . .
    And this is where I will die
    Heart-breaking way to end
    I will cry on AstroTurf”

    This is not a direct dialogue between the parties, but two monologues. The voice of power mistaking domination for dominion, and control for beauty; the voice of vulnerability seeing beauty in the created cycle of life and in the natural order of being.

    The persistence of some human beings to dominate creation, to eradicate natural beauty in favour of artificial (im)perfection, is wanton and devastating. Our arrogance is such that we can presume the only voice we will listen to is our own, but King Gizzard pose an alternative voice and invite us, through song, to listen in. Convenience and control define some of our ways of relating to the world and the response is the sigh of creation (Romans 8.22). This is what Pope Francis highlighted at the beginning of Laudato Si’: ‘This sister now cries out to us because of the harm we have inflicted on her by our irresponsible use and abuse of the goods with which God has endowed her. We have come to see ourselves as her lords and masters, entitled to plunder her at will. . .This is why the earth herself . . . “groans in travail”’.

    What I think the song does is elevate the voice we don’t hear, the groan of creation. I am not saying I believe human beings and butterflies are equal, or the same. Human beings are uniquely “capable of God”. They are, for me, created in the image of God. In the Wesleyan tradition, they have been given the natural, moral, and political image of God to serve God’s purpose for all creation. All life participates in God, but human beings have a greater ability to enjoy or frustrate the relationship than any other form of life. That distinct place we have is not one that should cause us to ignore God’s voice, grace, and presence, as it is mediated in other parts of creation.

    For John Wesley, the political image of God in us is significant for the whole of creation, because it relates to our call to be for God, in our being for the world. In his sermon The Great Deliverance he writes of how humanity ‘was God’s vicegerent upon earth . . . all the blessings of God flowed through [them] to the inferior creatures. [Humanity] was the channel of conveyance between [their] Creator and the whole brute creation’.  There is an intention for humanity to act for creation. It is a purpose and call to live for creation in such a way that we tend it with the Divine intent, that we act for it in a way consistent with God’s love. It is a call to listen to the lament of creation in the songs of butterflies and abandon AstroTurf and all it symbolises.

    King Gizzard & The Lizard Wizard have gigs at Alexander Palace on 22nd March and Troxy, London on 23rd March, plus they are part of the line-up for the End of the Road Festival in Salisbury from 31 Aug – 3rd September. Find out more about them at https://kinggizzardandthelizardwizard.com/

  • ‘One Day Like This’ – Elbow

    Elbow Live at Glastonbury 2017

    For the first time ever, we’ve had a submission of a song that we have had previously. Isn’t it great that a song can cause such different reflections?!

    Tom writes:

    They tell me that modern congregations can’t or won’t sing.

    They tell me that modern congregations, even if they’re willing to sing, won’t do harmony.

    They tell me that modern congregations don’t get responsive liturgy.

    Who “they” are I can’t tell you precisely, but it’s certainly a view I’ve regularly come across as a student of the Church’s worship – from both sides of the Worship Wars divide: those whose love is a choral, liturgical style that seems slowly to be disappearing; and those who provide a more concert-style worship because that’s what people seem to want/need. (I paraphrase, and do so knowing the arguments and debates are far more complex.) Just rest assured, I’m told that these things I list are true by a range of people.

    And then I close my eyes and listen to a memory:

    A concert at the Eden Project. Mercurial, symphonic, Mancunian pop-rockers Elbow are on stage, led by the soaring voice and humble personality of lead singer Guy Garvey. Part way through, Garvey is talking to the crowd and breaks into a bit of repeat-after-me vocal exercising. And he doesn’t need to tell the crowd they’re to repeat after him, he simply sings a few la, la, la notes, and the crowd responds, following him where his melody leads. And, of course, as the crowd already knows, those vocal antics eventually lead into the opening “Oh, oh, oh” warble of their track, “Grounds for Divorce”.

    Yet, as if this isn’t enough to question the assumptions behind the starting assertions, there comes an even stronger memory:

    The same place, the same concert, just a little later. The band have already gone off and then returned to do an encore. They finish this final return, as they were bound to, with their greatest hit, the soaring anthem “One Day Like This”. As the song reaches its final harmonic crescendo, with its chorus repeating ad infinitum, Garvey encourages the crowd to not only join in but to carry the weight of the song, to become not just the lead singer but the backing singers as well… and then the musicians stop playing… and Garvey stops singing… and the lights go down… and the crowd keeps singing, in full-blown harmony, for what feels like forever, until finally it forms its own gentle fade-out.

    Whenever people try and tell me what people nowadays can’t or won’t do in worship, and especially when it relates to singing in harmony or responding to responsive liturgy, I think of Elbow and “One Day Like This”. Because it seems to me that while we can sit around and complain at the lack of ability in modern day congregations the reality is that concert crowds prove time and time again that it isn’t true. Maybe, just maybe, in the ability of these crowds, God is challenging us to offer them something they actually want to respond to and sing!

  • ‘Do Nothing’ – The Specials

    Gill writes:

    It feels to me that The Specials and Fun Boy Three have provided a backing track for my life over the last three or four years. ‘The Lunatics Have Taken Over The Asylum’, ‘You’re Wondering Now’, ‘Ghost Town’ and ‘Our Lips Are Sealed’ mostly, but it’s ‘Do Nothing’ that I have honed in on recently.

    The song features in Sam Mendes’ latest film ‘Empire of Light’ – a story set in a British seaside town in the early 1980’s. Both the film and the song take you right back to the early 80’s when the Thatcher Government was starting to find their feet. The Winter of Discontent was fresh in people’s minds and the country had backed Margaret Thatcher’s bid for leadership in the hope that her administration would prevent unions from wielding such power again, that the individual would become key, and that privatisation was the route to a successful modern economy.

    Yet here we are in 2023 and in some ways it feels like we’re back to 1980 once again. The approach that Margaret Thatcher’s government took appears to have eventually brought us back to square one, rather than change things.

    Nothing ever change, oh no
    Nothing ever change

    But is that really the case? Has nothing ever changed since 1980? I think, maybe, the answer is quite a complicated one and I’m not sure I can reach a conclusive answer.

    Have I changed, for example? Have you? Well, physically I have but I think there is still a lot of the teenage me still there. When I was leaving a job at the age of 24, my boss said to me ‘Try not to change too much. Just be yourself in life.’

    People say to me just be yourself

    Yet I have lived and learned more about me over the years, so maybe I am not only myself but even more myself? Perhaps I am a stronger, less diluted version of the 24yr old who was encouraged not to change too much.

    Has society changed? Well, yes and no. We are more progressive, more aware and more inclusive in some ways. Yet in other ways, it feels like we have regressed to the post-war (or even inter-war) years. The song talks of police brutality, and only this week we have been reminded of crimes committed by police officers. 43 years on and it seems that nothing has changed. Perhaps we humans don’t change as much as we like to think we do.

    Has the church changed? Well – yes and no. Again, like society, we are more inclusive and progressive but then I ask myself ‘how would the church respond to the members of The Specials if they turned up today’ and I can’t help thinking that many (though not all) churches wouldn’t know how to welcome and include a bunch of young men in their late teens/early 20’s. Especially young men who felt that their life had no meaning. Would we really want to hear about them feeling like they have no value or meaning? Would we really want to do something about it?

    I’m just living in a life without meaning
    I walk and walk, do nothing
    I’m just living in a life without feeling
    I talk and talk, say nothing

    It’s a good job then, that even though the lyrics could be viewed as depressing and full of despondency, and that offer a succinct summing up of life for young people in the 1980’s, I can feel God giving me a nudge. A poke of my social and spiritual conscience. A call to action.

    It’s when we are at our lowest ebb that sparks of love, joy and hope can break through. Instead of doing nothing, it provokes me to do something. How about you?

    You may know that Terry Hall, the lead singer of this song, died on 18th December 2022. For some, there was a prophetic nature about his ability to give voice about racism, poverty and politics. What a legacy then, that the songs he made with The Specials, Fun Boy Three and The Colourfield, will continue to challenge and change perception. Thank you Terry and may you rest in peace.

    The Specials still have a website – https://www.thespecials.com/

  • ‘Bridge Over Troubled Water’ – Simon & Garfunkel 

    Jane writes:

    I am the kind of person drawn to lyrics in songs, and if you were to examine my regular playlists of choices you might find a lot of honesty and deep pain in the words of songwriters I prefer. I do do happy tracks too but find songwriting to be at its best when it’s plumbing the depths of the human soul and settling there.

    I was travelling with a friend recently and they said I’d do well to listen to less of that and more of stuff that carries positivity within it. It’s obviously settled with me. Whilst I can’t change the habit of a lifetime and my love for all things soul-searching, I did think that maybe this year I might start to collect songs of support, encouragement and affirmation.

    This is one such song

    It’s a song from my childhood. A track on a fabulous album that I was allowed to listen to with my older cousins at their house. It’s epic especially if played loud and very hard to sing along to in my experience because of the vocal capability of Art Garfunkel.  It has a brilliant ebb and flow to it – as well as saying all the things you might want to someone struggling or in a bit of a spot .

    When you’re weary
    Feeling small
    When tears are in your eyes
    I’ll dry them all
    I’m on your side
    Oh, when times get rough
    And friends just can’t be found

    Like a bridge over troubled water
    I will lay me down

    In the old days, people created cassette tapes for those they cared for and sent messages of love and support. These days I guess you’d share a Spotify, Apple Music or Amazon playlist.  Even one track might hit the spot.

    So today dig out your favourite track of love and encouragement, send it to whoever needs it and in that moment be that bridge for another. Traverse the troubled waters with them. Be that neighbour that God calls you to be. Tell someone you’ve got their back.  Be the one that cares – you never know how much the other might need it.

    Oh, and collect a playlist of similar songs if you feel like it.   Ain’t music great!

    Paul Simon & Art Garfunkel are still making music but not together. You can find out more here  https://www.paulsimon.com/  & here https://www.artgarfunkel.com/

  • ‘We Come 1’ – Faithless

    Tom writes:

    I’m stood in a field on a Somerset farm with thousands of other people – a farm in a village I have been privileged to call home. I’m there principally because I had been hoping to see one of the biggest bands in the world play my back yard. They had pulled out because of injury so instead, at the end of three days not seeing U2 play, I’m stood there, waiting to watch the legend that is Stevie Wonder. But this is the Glastonbury Festival, so there are other bands on beforehand, and second-billing on the Pyramid Stage this night are a group whose electronica defies categorisation and fills dancefloors – Faithless (whose lead singer, Maxi Jazz, died in the run-up to this past Christmas).

    I’ll admit that dance music is not my top choice of music style, though my need for good quality drums and bass sounds means I do, nonetheless, have time for well-crafted electronica, from the ground-breaking garage beats of Goldie’s “Inner City Life”, though the trip-hop of Massive Attack and Leftfield, to, yes, the dance-floor vibes and intellectual lyrics of Faithless.

    My favourite track by Faithless is “Reverence”, but the track that sticks in my mind from that night at Glastonbury 2010 is another of their anthems. I can close my eyes and hear its pounding beats, see the lights and the crowd, Maxi Jazz on the big screen bouncing and conducting as together he and the crowd, including me, and my sister, and her mates next to me, scream the lyrics which are the track’s title: “We Come 1”.

    Ostensibly a love-song, “We Come 1” speaks of the way in which love brings a sense of unity with the one, or ones, whom we love and who love us. And I phrase it that way, with an acknowledgement of possibly multiple participants, because my experience of that song, there in that Somerset field, was beyond simply I and one other – the whole crowd became, in some sense, one. We were joined by a shared sense of love and companionship. It seems to me that in some way this is a lived experience, as well as a lyrical description, of what the Church is supposed to be: whether the picture provided in Revelation of the Lamb and his bride (and in marriage two become one), or the unity described by Christ in John’s Gospel as he prays that his disciples might be one as he and the Father are one, or the bodily unity we find in the Pauline letters and in the Communion service where we declare that, “though we are many, we are one Body because we all share in one Bread”.

    Of course, we are all unique individuals, and our faith does not seek to claim that unity is the same as uniformity, that unity with God and with one another is to be merged into some homogenous blob – after all, as Christians we have faith in a Triune God, ever-One yet ever-Three. Most of the time, I’ll be honest, I struggle with what we mean by unity, especially when I look at the breadth of the Church of which I am a part. Yet when I need reminding of what that shared experience can be like, I turn to that moment in a field in my home village, and a band called Faithless, and my faith in the unity God calls us to is restored, even if just for a moment.

    If you want to know more about the work of Faithless, start here https://www.faithless.co.uk/

  • ‘Balance’ – Lucy Spraggan

    Fidge writes:

    Happy New Year everyone!

    Lucy Spraggan has a new single out! Woo Hoo! It’s called Balance and immediately spoke to me as a piece of music that might speak to us at the start of a new year.

    For those of you familiar with the Friday Fix or if you know me, you’ll know I’m a Lucy Spraggan fan. But that wasn’t always the case – when she first appeared on X Factor in 2012, I wasn’t terribly impressed, but over the past decade her music has grown on me, as has her personality. I really like the way she talks openly about her desire to create a better self and her journey of self-improvement is of course reflected in her music and lyrics. There is something incredibly raw, vulnerable and real about her songs which is perhaps why she connects with folk.

    In Balance she reflects on her life:

    All the stuff, I know right now
    It came from messing up most of my 20’s
    It’s changed for now, and I hope it lasts
    I spent most of my life feeling quite empty

    There’s lots of reasons I’m messed up
    I grew up around things that weren’t that healthy
    I’m working hard and it’s looking up
    If I stick to routines, it’s gonna help me

    I love the way that in spite of her desire to be a better person, she realises that this is never going to be perfect or polished as she says:

    I’m tryin to learn to love myself
    And what’s good for my mental health
    I read a lot about self-help
    I’ll never be polished


    I see the cycles happening now
    I’m responsible for shutting them down
    It took a while to figure that out
    But it’s my job to stop it

    But what does this song say to us about a new year? Perhaps there is an invitation here to explore what living our lives in balance might mean for us?

    It is my belief that most of us live our lives out of balance. We are too busy, life is too noisy, we are too rushed, our lives are fragmented. To find some balance, we may need to slow down, deepen our awareness, connect with the environment, live a more open life, acknowledge our vulnerabilities. Lucy describes being sober as one of the biggest improvements she’s made in her life. The video of her song Sober is a beautiful, tender and almost painful watch. 

    At the start of a new year, Balance might provide an invitation to explore what a better self might look like. What is it that you need to do to find some balance? Is there a path you need to take? Something you need to let go off? A something new to take on?

    In the lyrics of the song making changes in our lives is not something we do alone – we need people to accompany us, to journey with us, to be a buddy. If you could offer to be a helping hand to someone this year – what would you do? What difference might a helping hand make not just to the other, but to you?

    If you could stand back, I used to say that
    I thought I needed space to find my balance
    But I might need a hand and if you could be that
    I might need some help to find my balance, balance

    Perhaps as we start this new year, we are being invited into a place of balance.

    Find out about Lucy Spraggan here – https://lucyspraggan.com/

  • Happy New Playlist

    It may be the first day of 2023 (Happy New Year everyone!), but it’s also the day that we release the playlist of last year’s Friday Fixes.

    The full playlist is on Spotify – here’s the link https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3fB17QY9Hsz6P2LUdPerXA?si=ZMM_p_dhTTyKth7OJacRbA.

    There will also be a slimmed-down playlist on SoundCloud later this week. We’ll drop the link when it’s ready.

  • ‘Assembly Bangers’ – Jason Manford

    We’re taking a well-earned break on the Friday Fix this week, so there’s no reflection as such.

    You may have seen this video already but if not, here’s comedian Jason Manford with his Assembly Bangers.

    You can buy or download the single here – all proceeds go to the Trussell Trust.

    https://ingrv.es/assembly-bangers-5pg-1?_ga=2.227965716.841048798.1671716245-772490148.1671716244

    Or you can watch the video and pop a donation to the Trussell Trust here https://www.trusselltrust.org/make-a-donation/

    See you in 2023!